Category Archives: A day in my shoe

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PHOTOGRAPHY BY BOBO PHOTOGRAPHY

Happy new month,

The past few days have not been easy for me. I have had to deal with a few major setbacks here and there in my personal. Got overwhelmed at some point thus the silence. Maybe I will be able to share on this platform sometime before end of this year.

August has taught me to be patient and have the grace to accept when things do not actually go my way. Not to spend days sulking over things that probably will not matter  five years from now.Scovia-2[1]

Anyway I have this beautiful outfit/beauty post for you guys. I’ve been loving color lately and it definitely has been evident on my posts. Such outfits just brighten my day and uplift my soul. You should try it out sometime. Scovia-5[1]

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Cutouts on any outfit just turn me on. I end up buying such outfits even if that is the last coin I have lol. That is what I did when I came across this top at the market.Scovia-7[1]

Ps: This skirt is not ankara but linen so it creases real fast.

Make up by : @Poulene Jabuya on instagram.

Id love to hear from you. Feel free to leave a comment below.

Love and love,

Scov.

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PHOTOSHOOT GONE SOUTH

IMG_201707200_054922[1]Im those guys who have never gotten in trouble even in school I never got any suspension. Probably by sheer luck or maybe, just maybe am a good girl. So the other day friends and I were out shooting content for you guys when we got into serious trouble.
Grab you a cup of tea/coffee and let me entertain you; for once.

So as usual before any of my shoots I usually scout for locations and communicate the same with my photographer Paul. I had chosen the building where I work as a location for the first outfit but just when we were about to start shooting we were informed that for some security reasons we could not take pictures in the building. My bad, I had not seek permission from the necessary officials. So we just decided to take pics on the street outside the building which came out well btw.IMG_201707200_055406[1]

Now as we were walking scouting for location for the second outfit(since we were now a displaced lot) we came across some ancient looking burnt house and thought it would make a good location. W e clearly saw the gate was closed though the padlock was not locked. So silly us, we sheepishly opened the gate without thinking, spotted a good location outside the house and started shooting. We did not ,however, manage to get into the empty house since it was locked.IMG_201707200_060938[1]

Everything was coming along well until some shabbily dressed ,drunk looking man came into the compound. Wait, did I say drunk ? I suspect the guy was high on a combination of high grade weed and Mogoka(khat). He saw us and of course he asked who we were and what we were doing there. I had already gone on panick mode and when I panick my mouth refuses to open. So Paul being the unshakeable one tells the guy we are just uni students taking pics for Facebook.(Funny how we always use the student card any time we get into any sorta trouble).

The guy just said ‘hii ni 3000′(this will cost you 3k) and didn’t even wait a single second before reaching for his phone and calling ‘MKUBWA’-his boss that is. I’m panicking af at this moment but Millie (my friend who tagged along) and Paul are just so chilled out. So Mkubwa says we shouldn’t leave before he comes to meet the crooks who have trespassed into his property. Paul being the fast thinker decides to swap memory cards just incase Mkubwa tells us to delete all the pics taken at his premise. We then took other pics (the ones am sharing on this post) as cover up.

We waited for almost 2hrs and just to calm me down, Paul and Millie bought me ice cream just to calm me down. They even afforded to joke about sleeping in jail tf. I swear I need to take some of these chill pills these two take.IMG_201707200_062952[1]

So finally Mkubwa comes. He comes in with some three guys in his car. The first thought that rings in my mind is that the guys accompanying him are police officers. I swear I almost collapsed. So Mkubwa comes out of his car and asks us to produce our IDs. My bad I had not carried mine. So when Paul and Millie produced theirs, coincidentally they were from the same tribe as Mkubwa. After realizing this Mkubwa actually starts cracking some bland jokes with us. Then I knew we were gonna get away with this. And we did actually after being given a stern warning.(Ive actually cut the long story short since I need to start heading home).
I stand to be challenged but if we could get away with this then tribalism is still a major issue in our country.

Anyway lesson learnt the hard way. I do not think I will be trespassing on anyone’s property ever. So what trouble have you ever gotten into? Ever been detained and what was the experience like? Please do share.

Love and more love,

Scovia.

MY A-Z series 2

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Pics by Bobo photography.

Hey there,

As promised, every month I will be taking stalk of uuum well life so far. So lets see how well we have been doing.

Owning more and more African inspired outfits. Hope to share them with yall soon.

Praying that all I have planned for this year comes to pass. I want to do so much, share so much I get scared sometimes.

Quietly wishing I was at the coast right now with my dear beloved Raquel. Weird how after school life happens and you have to part with friends with whom you were once inseparable from. Any way that is life!(I had to google which words start with the letter Q LOL!)

Reading more and more this past few days. Paulo Coelho anyone? Feel free to suggest any good reads.

Singing along to some song my cousin just sent me and we both do not know the artist. Making use of google right about now!

Thinking of some crush who just went MIA lololololol. See my life!

Understanding my hair more these days. I just realized I do not need all these products for my hair. Just a few that work and keeping to my routine. Hoping that I smash those hair goals this July.

Vowing to myself to never try out some Japanese dish I recently had. Lets just say Id rather stick to African food. Guys I swear it tasted like rubber and my friend and I had to pretend to like it just so we did not disappoint our Japanese hosts. Struggles!!

Wondering how you celebrated this Valentines Day. It was just a normal Tuesday for me.

Xoxo….hugs and kisses from yours truly.( Because I cant seem to find any sane word that starts with the letter X).

Yearning for  chapatis and chicken stew. Yes I am a foodie and think about food all the time. Now you know why I am a nutritionist lol!

Zeroing in on a project I am working on with le bestie.img_20170222_172343

Its a wrap that  was not the easiest thing I have done today. Anyway, have yourselves a lovely evening and thank you for stopping by.

Love and Love,

Scov.

My 6 months natural experience

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“All this ‘natural hair’ talk is just a phase. A trend that will soon fade away just like all the other trends do and in we will have the new”, said one of my friends.

I don’t know about you but I am not natural because its currently a trend. Its a journey of self love and discovery to me. All those hours spend on the mirror styling my hair and I can now confidently stand all those fading marks acne left on my face.img_20170113_1010051

It means no more spending on those expensive weaves while neglecting my own hair. No offense to all my sisters out there who rock weaves/ perm. If that gives you confidence ma then go all out and whip it to the floor.img_20170113_1023261

Attending classes last year was not an easy task being that I used to hold my  relaxed hair in neat buns with no single strand out of place, then one day I just walk in in some ‘rugged’ afro. Those awkward stares from my classmates and lecturers were oh so obvious but I cared less.

It just saddens me how we make such a big deal out of an African wearing her God given natural hair yet it is quite ok when women of other ethnicities do so. Why does it have to be a battle when I’m invited for a job interview? Should I wear it or just look for some protective hairstyle just incase it rubs off the wrong way on one of the panelists? Why is it that African women understand so little about their hair but can name a million and one different types of weaves and differentiate them according to texture? Just being thoughtful.img_20170113_1003451

I wanted healthy kinky beautiful hair that I could wear everyday and that’s exactly what I’ve got. My relaxed hair was not doing so well I must admit.

As my hair grows wash days are becoming a nightmare since I have to detangle my hair but that is a cross I am very willingly bare. Moisture has been eluding me lately so that’s one thing I have to relearn by experimenting with different products. I have seen growth(I can now rock my puff…Lord knows how long I have waited) and cannot wait for my hair to hit 1 year this July.img_20170113_0749111

Being natural is one of the best decisions I have made so far, I have  made me new friends and my fro is always a conversation starter.  I subconsciously encourage people around me to go natural and so far so good.img_20170113_0832221

Love and love,

Scov.

 

My A-Z series

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Happy new year guys.

I have decided to introduce a new series this year. Its my A- Z series ..kinda like taking a recap of the whole month thing. I hope to recap every month so here is the first one.

Admitting that I am getting older faster than I anticipated maybe. Who else goes through this? I turn 24 this month and am a bit worried that I do not have it all figured out.When growing up I thought id be married and have a beautiful career by the time I turned 25 hahaha. Oh how naive ….

Becoming more and more fond of reading poems. My current craze right now is the book “Questions for Ada ” by Ijeoma Umebinyuo.

Creating outfit looks in my head as I type.Multi tasking much, I hope to improve in terms of being a creative.

Deciding to stay on my lane and avoid comparing myself with others since this only brews jealousy and devours me of my inner peace. Instead am learning to be happy for others and focus on bettering myself.

Events,events, events. I need to attend more of these this year. Enough of me and my introverted ways (sometimes/most of the time). I need to go out there and make new friends.img_201612353_103510

Finding it hard to stay with my hair open in this Nairobi weather. My hair keeps losing moisture I can’t deal.

Getting older . I celebrate my birthday on 30th of this month.With all this brokeness I just see myself eating cake in the house and calling it a day!

Hoping to land me a job soon. Who is hiring and does not need all those extraordinary number of years of experience? I can do anything…haha yea right.

Intending on learning how to sew since am done with uni now and finally get it off my bucket list.

Juggling thoughts of what I actually want to do in the long run. Be a full time nutritionist/ or a stylist or just juggle both. Time will tell. But I know where my heart leans towards though.

Keeping in mind that this year might come with its challenges but being that I have carried myself through days so bitter even angels would weep but I am still here;I will overcome.

Loving how my Bantu knot outs turned out. I still cant hack twist outs though. Where are all my naturalista friends… I need help.

Missing my uni day already!!!!!!I miss the friends I made over the years.

New year same ol bish though haha,working to better herself.

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Love and Love ,

Scov.

 

Different colours……..

” Stop comparing skin tones, who cares if your skin is lighter or darker than the person standing next to you? Change can only happen once you can truthfully look in the mirror and love that deep chocolate,cinnamon,Mocha or caramel complexion.”

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 Photography by Elius.

Hey guys,

guess what? Am now done with my exams and can go ahead and can sleep all I want at least till Monday. Well beside that I just thought I would share this with you guys.

Growing up, I really did not think being dark was beautiful. I mean all the media adverts and music videos used light skinned models and vixens. I silently wished my skin was a little bit lighter than it actually was. So right after after high school I developed some rashes on my face and went to the chemist to get some over the counter remedy for my skin and was given some cream.To my amusement this cream cleared the rashes and also made me two shades lighter.I guess it had some skin lightening components. You don’t know how happy I was. I was convinced that I looked more attractive than my original skin colour.

Woe unto me when all that was left of my smooth ‘light skin’ was eczema and acne combined, a month later.That was the beginning of my skin troubles. I have never been that depressed in my life. I have struggled with skin issues for about 4 years now but am glad that the eczema is all gone and what is left is periodic mild-moderate acne once in a while. I’ve gone back to my original skin colour and learnt to appreciate it .In fact right now I can not have it any other way. All our skin colours and tones are beautiful. Besides someone else’s  beauty does not in anyway diminish yours.

This inspired my shoot the other day and I included one of my friends who is light skinned. Her name is Doreen. Isn’t she gorgeous?She is one of the most trendiest and colourful people I know.IMG-20160813-WA0023[1]

The athleisure trend has caught up with me and you will find me in sneakers 95% of the time. I particularly love the dress and sneakers combo. I’m totally in love with my adidas originals sneakers . We paired our sneakers with skater dresses and of course headwraps because well, am obsessed with them.

Thoughts on the outfits?

Love and love,

Scov.

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50 random facts about me part II

Hey guys I know this post is long over due, my apologies. Sometimes life just happens. So lets do this…

26. My baptismal name is Veronica but I rarely use the name partly because I do not think I look like a Veronica plus Scovia has more oomph to it or so I think.

27. I am a fixer. I am attracted to things I do not understand.. something I think will put me in trouble some day.

28. I think I have multiple faces especially when it comes to photos. I look slightly different in different photos don’t you think?

29.I am always amused with how my brain works. I never do things the conventional way most of the time. I sincerely do not know if this is  plus or minus for me but I just think that if 1+9=10 so is 3+7 and 2+8.

30. The last time I cried was ummmmm… well I can not remember.

31.I love cooking. I am not sure if my cooking is the best though. I cook for the family 98% of the time when home. I hope to take a short culinary course maybe after am done with my degree course.. Just for the record I can cook Ugali for about 12 people(pats myself on the shoulder because I know most of my friends cant cook even for 1.

32. I am 5’6 inches tall and weigh  59 kilos.

33.I’d like to have a maximum of two kids . If God is kind enough a boy and a girl in that order. Well because I just think a girl needs a big brother.

34.I obsess over stuff, not in a bad way though.

35.I do not have any single tattoo on my body and only one piercing. I”d love to have a tattoo though but I am not a sucker for pain.

36. I recently cut my hair..OK by this I do not mean that I went the bald way but I was kinda done with that whole transitioning thing so I cut the relaxed part . I am not sure I like how I look with short hair, am 50/50 about it. Sometimes I am not sure I recognize the girl I see on the mirror but I definitely have no regrets on going natural.

37. I find confidence so attractive in other people, especially of the opposite sex , oh and a good cologne just melts my heart away. If you know how to dress well (and by well i do not mean sagging jeans) that is just a plus.

38. Four things that make me extremely happy are good food, good music , good company and shooooeees!!!

39. My zodiac sign is aquarius  am not so sure if it truly explains my personality though.

40. The last person I texted is ……….. just someone I am getting to know. No need to mention names.

41. The most traumatic experience in my life was losing my dad three and a half years back.

42. I am worried about something to do with school and hope by the end of the day everything will be sorted.

43. My best sequels at the moment are Quantico and how to get away with murder. Hope am not alone on this one.

44. I think our parents are always right  (most of the time).

45. I love my skin colour just the way it is and would never want to be lighter or darker than I already am, thats why I started a movement by the name ‘love your melanin’. You can use that hashtag on the gram when you upload a photo that shows a moment in which you are most confident in your skin colour and join in the movement. You can also follow me on instagram @just_scovia.

46. I do not like it when people touch my face for no apparent reason especially if I do not know you like that.

47.The last person I had a deep or lets just say a ‘real’conversation with was my photographer Sophie.

48.I am not a morning person so I’d rather read till late at night than wake up early in the morning. But this does not apply when say I have an exam the next day…the pressure can make me read the whole night lol.

49. I have never studied or lived anywhere else apart from in Nairobi.

50.  I intend to own my first house by the time I am 30.I pray for that every single day.IMG_20160378_063601

And there we go am done but you are free to ask me any questions on the comment box and I will answer sincerely.You can read  part one of this too..

Love and love,

Scov.

50 Random facts about me:Part 1

IMG_20160383_112321Hey guys,

well today’s post will be a little bit different. Decided to share 50 random facts about me. Figured this post would be quite long so I decided to divide it into two. So here goes…..

1.I am a first born.I have two brothers and three sisters but most people confuse me for the third born since my sister and brother are more plump than me, just a little bit.If you ever get to see our family portrait you would think we were handpicked from all corners of this country. No one looks like the other..

2. I can speak four no wait,three and a half languages, English,Swahili,a bit of Luo (though I understand everything) and German.

3. I am not the most social person yo know. I consider myself an introvert but can get really loud once am comfortable.

4. Most people  do not find me approachable. I bet it is because I sorta have a resting bitch face. But sincerely I am easy going.

5.I do not drink alcohol nor smoke. I tried out alcohol once and did not like the experience. I just do not fancy the whole idea of not being in control of myself.

6. When growing up I always wanted to be a doctor but I have ended up being a nutritionist.

7. I do not have a constant favorite color ,in fact it changes oh so often I cannot keep up. At the moment am all about tan, ox-blood red and jungle green.

8. If asked to choose between a night out at the club or movies at the cinemas I would choose the latter. I like dancing and all but since I do not drink alcohol I get tired of hanging out at the club pretty fast.

9. I like dressing up and getting all dolled up but most of the time you will find me in jeans ,comfortable pair of flats and no make up aside from some lip balm.(Is that even make up in the first place?)

10. I think thrift shopping or just shopping in general is my hobby. I get so excited when I find unique, good quality pieces at unbelievable prices! Probably explains why  I started my clothe selling business though at the moment I only sell to my close friends and relatives.

11. I am also quite obsessed with fashion photography at the moment. I enjoy my shoots. The thought of freezing moments in my life that will be gone forever kinda excites me.

12. I am more of a neat freak than clean freak . I am always arranging stuff in the house.I have a pretty good handwriting and when I make a mistake on paper I would rather tear off the paper and start afresh rather than cancel it out. I choose a blue pen over a black one any day. I do not know if its just me but anything written in blue is neater.

13.I cannot use a pen without its cap on.

14. My food my everything. Club foodie all the way my friend but I am currently focusing on eating healthy. I mean a girl needs to practice what she preaches.

15. I am a huge Beyonce’ fan. Such awesomeness in one woman! Even if she just coughed in a song honey I would still vouch for it. I am also a big Afro pop fan who is slowly warming up to soft rock (blame it on Taylor Swift).

16. I  am a hopeless romantic and hope to travel to all these amazing places I have heard of with my special someone one day.

17. Coffee over tea any time any day.

18. I hold my hair up in a neat bun with no side parts most of the time.

19. I am that weirdo who remembers outfits people wore in an event 10 years ago but cannot remember where she placed her phone  just 5 seconds ago. Speaking about phones, I keep on forgetting my phone everywhere and rarely pick my calls not because I ignore them but probably because 90% of the time I do not know where my phone is or it is on silent mode. My friends hate me for this.

20.I find it so hard to forgive and forget but I am working on this.

21. I cannot run to save my own life. And to think I have an athletic body….what a waste! I remember in high school it was compulsory for us to run during the first ten minutes of our p.e lesson and boy that was just a nightmare for me. I would always be the last..no wait the second last since the last position was always ‘set aside’ for some plump classmate of mine. And that would only mean two more laps for the bottom two. Glory be to God high school is over. But I can actually walk for long distances.

22.I am afraid of living alone. I get depressed. I guess it is because I am from a big family and pretty used to having people to talk to, argue with and crack jokes with.

23. I was the house captain of my house in high school.

24. I do not see myself keeping any pets. I hate cats and fear rats. I cannot stand even a picture of a rat.

25. The meanest / funniest thing  I have ever been told is that I would become a city council worker by our high school matron. She used to tell people more mean stuff like”you look like you come from a family of night runners!”when you made a mistake of crossing her path but whatever she told me cut deep man ha ha. I pray I do not become one no offense to any city council workers out there.

I know this post should have been up a week ago but my site had some issues. The last part will be up by next week Friday. Have a beautiful day.

Love and love,

Scovia.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Wait

Hey  beautiful creatures,

so its just a few days post valentines day. You probably went on a date or spent some quality time with your special someone, received gifts …..you know all that mushy stuff. It is actually beautiful to love and be loved right back in return. I mean who doesn’t long for that. You probably think I am going to bore you with tales of how I spent my V-day with my special someone(Lol as if there was) but this post will not take that direction….this post is to those who are single(because I am) and probably felt left out  this V-day. With all the fuss and valentines fever all over the place especially on both native and social media one might end up feeling out of place, angry and lonely if you are just from a break up or worse still tempted to go back to your previous relationship just to kill the loneliness you might be feeling.(well I am just saying ,not referring to anything personal.)I sincerely think that love should be shown everyday to not only your partner or spouse but to everyone close to you. If you are lucky to be in a loving relationship, treasure and nature it but if you are single you do not have to be sad and depressed.

Ask me why I enjoy my time being single? This is why and also why you should if at all you are single……

 

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                      Photography by Blacksappho.

There’s more time to dedicate to what you are truly passionate about, pick up that forgotten skill and develop it…more time to hang out with friends and spend more time with your family and just be free.

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You can take a break from everything, put your feet up in the air and just live for your own sake. You are allowed to be a little bit selfish and just pamper yourself.  You can try out that hairstyle you have always wanted to but could not since hubby thought it was ‘tacky’. You can dedicate this extra time to going to the gym, working out and getting that killer body.IMG-20160216-WA0006[1]

You have the freedom to travel and move around as you wish without the burden of worrying about your loved one. You can take up that job in Mozambique or go further  your studies in Australia with much ease. No emotional attachments. So enjoy this freedom though short lived and sublime.IMG-20160216-WA0010[1]

It is that phase in your life where there is no yelling ,no bickering, no show of might ,no sucking up, no fake hugging…you can just have your peace of mind. Not saying that all relationships are like this though. So savor the phase of life while it is here.IMG-20160216-WA0007[1]

Only single people know the joy of switching off their phones and going into slumber land without having to explain yourself to anyone or being questioned in those rather annoying tones.IMG-20160216-WA0005[1]

Finally if you are not happy being single then you can never be happy taken. Thrive in the wait. Do not stress yourself searching and turning every friendship into senseless relationships. Be sexy and fabulous, do your thing and at the right time the right person will come our way.

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Featured-Hellen (isn’t she adorable?)

Head wrap- My mommas.

Denim shorts-Cut from old pant but you can get similar at Mr.Price.

Sneakers-borrowed from my sister.

Top-Msyoka Mulee collection.

Till next time….

Love and love.

LETS TAKE STOCK SHALL WE

unna

 

 Making: A maxi skirt out of a curtain with my bestie..crazy ryt? I thought so too but cant wait to see how it turns out.Il probably feature it on the blog.

Reading:On a disease known as Trichomoniasis and presenting on it  alone next week as punishment for not attending class last week .Such an ‘evil’ lecturer I have but still love his classes all the same.

Drinking : Atleast three glasses of water everyday…….shame!shame!shame on me and I still complain about my skin….shame!

Eating: Atleast three samosas daily and avocado in almost every meal and I still don’t add weight..smh.

Wanting: So much out of life….If I put down my want list down here I think we shall spend a whole decade reading through.But most of all I just want to be happy .

Getting rid of: Fake and phony people in my life.

Deciding: On whether I really want to become a Dj or not. My brother thinks that’s wanting to wear waaaaaaay to many hats in a single lifetime…My sister just laughed her a** off …..My bestie cant  wait to see me on the decks…What I know is that I have soft spot for music.I havent told my mum yet…

Listening to : Usher’s  ‘I dont mind’. Heard it yesterday for the first time and want to listen to it over and over again. Oh and this African song ‘Dorobucci ‘ by Don jazz and a whole lot of other artists always gets me dancing.

Loving: My braids though I know I always get bored of a hairstyle fast, I love the simplicity.

Missing:My dad a whole lot and it really sucks that I cant do anything about it …anyway so is life.

Wondering :When oh when will this semester end so that I can start my holiday! Defocused …..nooooo I just love fun …..think my motto is work hard play even harder..lol.

Feeling: Like applying henna on my nails was a wrong decision since I have stains past my nails .

Hoping: these rushes on my face go away soon.

Wearing: A colouful shirt(think these are all the colours of the world in one shirt) and a pair of distressed jeans today.

Sewing: Nothing at all….cant sew even to save my own life.

Thanking: God for my family …we have been through a lot but always afford a hearty laughter at the end of each day.

 Believing: That nothing is actually impossible even the word itself is i’m possible.

Anyone else who also takes stock?gladly share the link on the comment section.

TGIF people have fun if you are turning up somewhere and stay safe.

Till next time ,stay fly.

xoxo Scovia.